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That's right, sometimes being in a relationship truly sucks ass. Some days I really miss when it was just my son and I. I could choose to cook dinner if I wanted or I could make something quick for him and have a bowl of cereal. I didn't have to worry about pleasing any one else. Didn't have to worry about planning things around anyone else or putting things off that I wanted to do. I didn't have any one to answer to; didn't worry about pissing someone off; and I certainly didn't cry because someone hurt my feelings (I'm sensitive like that). I just did me.
Yep, sometimes I really miss that.
But, I understand that no relationship is perfect. While I believe I have a good relationship with Corey, we still have our moments and our bad days. Today happened to be one of them.
Corey has a great sense of humor, but sometimes it can be really bad and inappropriate. I, being the person I am, will surely let him know when he's being a douche bag. Hey, how is one supposed to know that something is unacceptable if no one tells them so?
Of course, he doesn't like this so much. So he goes off in his little child-like rant and refuses to speak to me for a while. Well, guess what? I didn't do anything wrong here. So, our first night off together and I sit at my laptop and he is doing his thing. So much for a nice evening... that sucks.
But ya know what? I'm o.k. with that. You wanna act like a dick? Have at it buddy. When you're ready to act like the man I know you are, come talk to me. He just won't get what he wants later. Hey, all is fair in love and war...
My relationship is far from perfect. Sometimes, relationships just suck! But, we work on them, every day... Why? Because, hopefully, the good times far out weight the bad.
Some of us, unfortunately have more work than others. And I am the relationship expert? You're damn right I am. I know how to make it work, it's showing others (Corey included) that can be so damn hard!
Remember, it takes two people to make it work. No one person can do it alone. The hard part is getting both parties on the same page. Communication and compromise is key.
So I had a bad day and Corey was a douche bag... We've been on a long journey together so far and we have a long way to go. If you have an open mind and can leave your ego at the door, relationships can work... but they will still suck at times!
After all, it can't always be roses and butterflies... ;)
Yep, sometimes I really miss that.
But, I understand that no relationship is perfect. While I believe I have a good relationship with Corey, we still have our moments and our bad days. Today happened to be one of them.
Corey has a great sense of humor, but sometimes it can be really bad and inappropriate. I, being the person I am, will surely let him know when he's being a douche bag. Hey, how is one supposed to know that something is unacceptable if no one tells them so?
Of course, he doesn't like this so much. So he goes off in his little child-like rant and refuses to speak to me for a while. Well, guess what? I didn't do anything wrong here. So, our first night off together and I sit at my laptop and he is doing his thing. So much for a nice evening... that sucks.
But ya know what? I'm o.k. with that. You wanna act like a dick? Have at it buddy. When you're ready to act like the man I know you are, come talk to me. He just won't get what he wants later. Hey, all is fair in love and war...
My relationship is far from perfect. Sometimes, relationships just suck! But, we work on them, every day... Why? Because, hopefully, the good times far out weight the bad.
Some of us, unfortunately have more work than others. And I am the relationship expert? You're damn right I am. I know how to make it work, it's showing others (Corey included) that can be so damn hard!
Remember, it takes two people to make it work. No one person can do it alone. The hard part is getting both parties on the same page. Communication and compromise is key.
So I had a bad day and Corey was a douche bag... We've been on a long journey together so far and we have a long way to go. If you have an open mind and can leave your ego at the door, relationships can work... but they will still suck at times!
After all, it can't always be roses and butterflies... ;)
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